Career & Self-Care Coaching
Move from survival to choosing and
build a life that finally gives back to you.
the problem isn’t you - it’s the foundation
Work doesn't have to hurt. You don’t need to sacrifice health or meaning just to survive - you have a fundamental right to a better life. Even if you think this is out of reach for you, the truth is that it’s possible—and it could even be the most realistic goal you’ll ever set.
But reaching for that can be impossible when no one was ever able to show you what truly matters. If you grew up in a household focused on survival, there probably wasn’t room for basic life skills, emotional support, or personal exploration. In that environment, you likely picked up habits - such as prioritizing immediate relief or always putting others first - that served you well back then, but don’t fit the life you want now.
Now you have a chance to build the foundation you missed, exactly how you want it. Replacing outdated habits and being true to yourself is brave and difficult work. But the other side is full of energy, pride, and a life you finally own.
Hoping for something better may feel too risky. In the past, striving for improvement may have only led to more pain. You may have encountered coaches or therapists who focused entirely on what was "wrong" with you without providing solutions, leaving you thinking you were the problem rather than the faulty system you were surviving. Some may have even decided you were beyond help and pushed you out. And while self-help resources might have offered some helpful tips, they were often too shallow to reach the root of what you’ve been experiencing.
If you’re still here, it might be because a part of you knows you deserve more. You’ve become an expert at enduring suffering—now you can take action to stop it. In a space that honors the weight of everything you’ve carried, you can finally start putting that down and build a life that serves both your purpose and your peace.
you deserve someone who gets IT.
I’m the coach, Christi. I’ve demolished and restarted my life several times. Most restarts never worked out because I was chasing someone else’s version of success — whether that was excessive altruism, blind commitment to a conventional life, rebelling against the status quo, or financial success. Although most folks have admired my ambition during these pursuits, I was stuck in survival mode and the patterns I developed from my childhood. I’ve spent the last 10 years experimenting with various healing and self-development strategies and have found what creates long-term solutions. I’ve thus been able to determine my own version of success and I am here to empower others to find their own version too.
how coaching works…
These sessions guide you through the roots of what’s preventing change, teach practical skills to resolve those patterns, and help you build an individualized plan toward a career that is authentic, meaningful, and sustainable. The focus is on building something internal — habits, confidence, and clarity that stay with you long after coaching ends.
skills you might build along the way…
RElationships
Asking for Help
Saying No
Boundary Setting
Conflict Resolution
Self-Advocacy
Navigating Retaliation or Harassment
Professional Relationships
Caregiver Burnout & Guilt
Compromising
self-management
Decision-Making
Long-Term Thinking
Overcoming Learned Helplessness
Nervous System Regulation
Emotion Regulation
Internal Locus of Control
Internal Validation
Value-Based Actions
Boundary Setting
CAREER management
Career Exploration
Goal Setting
Income Expectations
Self-Promotion
Time Management
Navigating Professional Development
What are clients saying?
find the support that fits you where you are right now.
switch support
You feel trapped in toxic environment or career that doesn’t fit and are ready to make a change.
recovery support
You've already stepped away from a career and want to start something new.
implementation support
You're in a career you love and want to refine how you operate and grow within it.
Stability support
You enjoy the work you do but get overwhelmed by the practical aspects.
how to get started
❶ Book your free 30-minute consultation using the button below.
❷ Complete a short pre-assessment. You'll receive it once your booking is confirmed. It helps me understand where you are and what you're working toward.
❸ Attend your consultation and get a feel for whether this is the right fit.
❹ Take the time you need to make your decision.
❺ Book your first session when you're ready.